Sincerely, Jasmine B.
Breaking up never easy, but sometimes it is NEEDED. The cycle of on and off relationships can trap you for years, and cause your to miss discovering your destiny. When the ex and i broke up, I was determined to make it for good. Here are some steps I took to stay free:
1. Blocked social media
These platforms allowed for subliminal messages and memes to keep us entangled in each others web.
2. Blocked his family
Family is another thing that could have kept me from leaving for good. Because they built a relationship with me too, they would often contact me about giving it another chance or stopping by to see them. Those could have been traps get me right back in a situationship.
3. Changed my circle
We had mutual connections, from friends to his frat. The conversations always started with asking me how I was doing, but ended with "you know yall will get back together." Another trap. Your circle will either push you forward and help you grow, or they will keep you locked in the past.
4. Gave it to God
This was the most important step for me. I know we here this all the time, but when I submitted my heart to Him, true healing was able to take place. Attempting to heal without him would be leaving my wounds open to infection.
Break UPS are sometimes exactly what we need to get on the path to destiny. They aren't always easy, but we must do whatever is necessary to break free from toxic relationships.
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